What can a Christian man do as far as an outlet for his God given sexual needs and others things he wants?
What can a Christian guy do to make his life more fun and interesting besides going to church and reading the Bible. I’m a Christian too and my friends say I have a boring life. Could I go to parties, clubs, etc.? Also, I like to admire women and their personalities.
You can do pretty much everything you can think of that’s fun…the line is Perversion…No one says you cant go to the Beach or play volleyball…or you can’t hike …you can do any of these things…and live a clean healthy lifestyle…
you can go to parties and go to clubs…go dancing and have great nights out…none of that is anti-Christian
what is anti-Christian is the manner YOU CARRY YOURSELF in any of these situations.
Are you a Good Man?…Im not talking goody-too-shoes…but do you do the Right thing?
saludos Gente
G-d bless
Di-s bendiga
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July 27 2009 04:44 am | Christian
Roadhorse™ One-Eyed Avenger on 27 Jul 2009 at 10:31 am #
Most of them turn to serial-killing or kid-molesting…
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Tommiecat on 27 Jul 2009 at 10:36 am #
The Bible says to satisfy your sexual needs with your wife
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Bluto Blutarsky75 on 27 Jul 2009 at 10:53 am #
go to parties, have a brew, get laid.
if those aren’t the things you are looking to do on your free time you ARE and always will be boring.
that is part of bieng a guy. don’t ruin your life becaue you apply the words of a society existing thousands of years ago to modern day that doesn’t apply.
people have become MORE not less enlightened since then. if you are religious then use the bible as a guideline and helpfull stories and advice rather than some law (especially since doing many things the bible tells you to do would get you arrested these days).
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mortoo revisited on 27 Jul 2009 at 11:37 am #
the next best alternative is wanking
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Angel DelaGuardia on 27 Jul 2009 at 12:06 pm #
You can do pretty much everything you can think of that’s fun…the line is Perversion…No one says you cant go to the Beach or play volleyball…or you can’t hike …you can do any of these things…and live a clean healthy lifestyle…
you can go to parties and go to clubs…go dancing and have great nights out…none of that is anti-Christian
what is anti-Christian is the manner YOU CARRY YOURSELF in any of these situations.
Are you a Good Man?…Im not talking goody-too-shoes…but do you do the Right thing?
saludos Gente
G-d bless
Di-s bendiga
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Fearfully & Wonderfully Made on 27 Jul 2009 at 12:36 pm #
If you are a man of God you wouldn’t try and be like the world.
God’s word says:
"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will."
(Romans 12:2)
"You were taught, with regard to your former life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness."
(Ephesians 4:22-24)
Stop trying to be like your "friends" and be like Jesus!
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Will L on 27 Jul 2009 at 1:03 pm #
Parties, admiring women, etc. are not sinful as long as you are not perverting yourself in doing so. Admiring women for their beauty and personality is not wrong as long as you are not lusting (thinking about sexual acts with them).
If you are a Christian, follow your conscious if you feel something is wrong then it probably is as the Holy Spirit will work to keep you pure as long as you cooperate with Him.
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John D on 27 Jul 2009 at 1:12 pm #
I like to tell people. Being a Christian is fun. I have way more fun now than I ever did at the bar or club. First surround yourself with Christian men who can hold each other accountable for their actions. Two, if you are married, have fun with your wife behind closed doors. And just your wife! Three, get out and do stuff. Ballgames, movies, amusement parks, concerts, or whatever. Have fun. This sounds so cliche, but ask yourself "Would Jesus do this?" If so then go ahead, if not then back away. And last, look at women in a different light. They are created by God. Don’t fuel the desire of lust b/c it will only wont more. Rather surround yourself with his Word, Worship, ask God to fill you with his Holy Spirit to be able to withstand the temptation. God Bless!
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chrispy on 27 Jul 2009 at 1:38 pm #
Questions to myself:
#1 Am I serious enough to be saved?
#2 Am I really Christs’ Disciple
#3 Do I really Love Jesus?
I love the world but……… How is my "relationship" with Jesus?
The world Satan controls is dying right now!
What do you REALLY love?
It is NOT about me!
It is about Jesus
It is about them!
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Selfish male.
I wish I could give my testimony.
Nathaniel G on 27 Jul 2009 at 1:59 pm #
I am going to be completely honest with you. Your sexual desires should be satisfied by your wife. As for Christianity not being fun, I doubt you know entirely what Christianity is about. We are supposed to hate the ways of the world and love the Lord. We are supposed to pursue The Lord above EVERYTHING else! If He is not your joy, your desire, your passion, then I think you need to take serious inventory of your Spiritual life. I am not saying you will be perfect, but if you are TRULY a Christian, your desires will change and you will become more like Christ. But heed this warning: if your desires don’t change and you don’t begin to love the things God loves and hate the things God hates and desire Him and desire to be more separate from the World and you can do things that you KNOW are sins and get away with it, then you are not saved, because the Bible says in Philippians 1:6 that God will complete the Work that he began in you and in Jeremiah 32:40 says that God will put the fear of Him in your heart so that you will not turn away from Him.
Honestly, my joy and my life comes from honoring and pursuing Christ. My desires are to be like Him, not like this world.
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